Saturday, January 31, 2009

Classic Pink - dedicated to the goddess in every woman


By the way, how hot is the lovely lady on this bottle!? I don't have a very great sense of smell. It makes me really sad, because when I can smell, prefectly orchestrated fragrances make me really happy. My all time favorite is Chanel No. 5. It's just so classic. For a regular day, I wear J'adore L'absolu. It has a muted warm scent, almost like your wearing your husbands cologne (as if I could get my husband to wear cologne, I wish!) But I searched for a really long time to find this perfume that I smelled once and didn't buy and regretted ever since. They stopped production for a while and are now back in the swing of things. Nana De Bary's story is amazing, she was on the beach in Thailand being totally glamorous and wonderful (I assume), when the Tsunami hit. She actually had to run for her life. She stopped working for a while to recover and when she came back to her fragrances she "chose to strengthen the concentration from eau de toilette to eau de parfum, so they are more tenacious on the skin." "...they are made to be deeper and hold on longer." I love that she translated her experience that way. Check out her full story on her website. Something about the words she used here makes me think that wearing this perfume would make you feel sexy and slinky and powerful and invincible at the same time.

Friday, January 30, 2009

i want this for my mudroom


I should just buy it. This is one of the very few things I want that is not totally extravegant and exorbitantly expensive. It's from JCPenney for god's sake.




Upholstery, among other things.


I love so many of the new designers, but the really high quality stuff is so expensive. And the really crappy quality stuff is so expensive. Not to mention that whole contributing to global destruction and consumerism.
So I really love vintage furniture. Better quality materials, construction and prices. I have furnished most of my 3000 sq. ft. house for like $12 on craigslist. But I need to reupholster almost everything! Seriously, almost everything. I would love to buy everything vintage from 1stdibs.com where it's already refinished and reupholstered and fabulously perfect, but no such luck.
So here is a wonderously adorable website to check out. Nia at SummerlandStyle.com does upholstery, design consultation and sells her beautifully redesigned furniture finds. I will be eagerly awaiting her upcoming StyleGuide, which I hear may include some DIY videos on how to upholster my craigslist treasures myself! Ah, I'd rather wait till I can afford to hire her to do it.

This may seem a bit strange...


So faux bois is really in, right...right...well, it is. I don't normally like building products that try to pretend they are something they aren't, but this is trying to pretend not to try to look like something it isn't and isn't trying to be. Right? Whatever. I need to fence my ponds so my children don't drown, and I really like this. Industrial, rustic, farm fency, concretish. You get the picture. It's called woodcrete rail, the name says it all.

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Lady Love


I have a thing for lovely lady portraits. I just bought an incredible portrait from a store in Palm Beach to hang over my mantle. My daughter named her Fifi Sufois! I will post a picture of her later.


So frequently they are a little on the creepy side, but this one is absolutely charming in everyway. A little on the whimsical side, but I love her just the same. This piece and other magical work by the same artist can be found on etsy at amberalexander.


Interestingly, this artist is selling prints of her work, not the originals, so VERY affordable.

Letter to Mr. Townsend at Conde Nast

Dear Mr. Townsend,

I have just learned of the decision to cease publication of Domino Magazine. More accurately, I read the news yesterday and it has taken me a full day to process. My understanding is that this is due to a drop in advertising dollars, and not a drop in readership.

I wonder if your advertisers fully understand the market and demographic they will be losing with the close of Domino. I am sure they feel they have done their due diligence to determine where their advertising dollars are best spent, but we all know that there can be error and misinterpretation in even the most thorough study.

To illustrate my point, I am a 33 year old married mother of 2 young girls. I live in an affluent neighborhood in a suburb of Seattle and my husband is in management at a large, well known software company in the area. We just built our home and are in what seems to be the never ending process of decorating.

My friends are young, affluent mothers, business owners and executives. For the most part our sensibilities are neither fully modern, traditional, bohemian nor country. Until Domino came around we didn’t have a design publication that spoke to our needs. We are not outfitting faux Tuscan style spec houses or uber-modern modular prairie homes. We have between us, a variety of architectural tastes and design aesthetics, yet we all are able to find inspiration (and purchasing resources) from the pages of your magazine.

Economic times are tough, and we are all feeling the weight of it, but our lives are not stopping. People are still remodeling, building, decorating and purchasing. Thank goodness they are, for the sake of those who make a living in the construction industry. Certainly there are those whose financial situation has put these activities on hold. However, they are spending their time and energy planning and waiting for the moment they can bring their dreams to life by turning their space into the home they imagine for themselves and their families.

There is no other publication that can fill the void left by the absence of Domino. I truly believe your magazine spoke to the future of design, whereas the other publications available are directed at the past. We will be left with no choice but to move online, and try to find wherever your creative and talented contributors take up residence in cyberspace (Grace Bonney, I’m talking to you!) However useful the internet is to further research a product once I have discovered it, it is in no way as compelling as seeing it in print.

This brings me to my self-serving reason for writing this letter. I know this will come off as being overly dramatic, but it is the truth, none the less. Receiving Domino Magazine in the mail is the best part of my month. I wait for it. I get jealous if my friends get it in the mail before I do. I have every issue ever printed and reference them constantly. I carve out a special time, where I can’t be interrupted and I melt into the pages. It is the equivalent of daytime champagne, chocolate and manicures all in one, with absolutely none of the guilt.

Additionally, I would like to add that I received a survey request in my inbox from Domino. It asked me to list every item of value in my home from number of flat screen tvs to prada bags and jimmy choos. It then proceeded to ask for my home address. I would be thrilled to help Domino in any way possible and would have happily given you all the requested information if I felt it was secure and not sent by a very design savvy criminal that was casing my house.

In conclusion, I beg you to reconsider. I beg you to educate your advertisers on this lost opportunity to reach the exact demographic that has the resources to, and interest in, purchasing their products. I beg you to not throw away the value that comes with an extremely loyal customer base of 850,000 readers. You have a captive audience, with nowhere else to go, it seems financially prudent to hold onto that base and sell us your products. Lastly, I beg of you, to not take away my only guiltless pleasure.

I appreciate your time and energy, and I hope this is not the only letter of this nature that you receive on behalf of your wonderful and successful product, Domino Magazine.

Best wishes,
Dana Haveson

Saturday, January 10, 2009


I would hang these at various heights from monofilament in a childrens room so they were flying overhead

...an Audrey Hepburn movie maybe...

I can't tell you how badly I want to live in a world where this is appropriate....